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Where has the time gone? (by Ramona)

Wednesday, September 1st, 2010

It’s been about 2 weeks since we came back from Houston.  I still feel out of sorts with my routine with the boys.  It’s not so much that the boys are out of their routine; it’s more that I feel like I’m not all together.  I used to have this nice routine of doing a chore a day, prepping dinner throughout the day, and going out with the boys.  The first two things I’ve not been quite as consistent about, especially the prepping dinner.  I’ve gotten lazier about making dinner and what I’m making because I just feel so tired of the day – fighting a toddler and dealing with a teething almost-one-year old.  It’s been this way since Nat first traveled in March.  Hopefully, as Nat starts working, I’ll kick my butt back into gear about chores and dinner.

The past 2 weeks have been a change for our family since Nat has been at home.  It changes the dynamics of life, and it allows me to go out during naptime.  I think that makes life more busy for me as I try to squeeze in more things to do that I really should do.  Anyways, we’ve had a good time having daddy around.  We’ve gotten some projects done – getting the chair rail up, moving the towel rack so it’s screwed into the studs and not the dry wall, ordering and putting together new pantry shelves, hanging a cabinet in the garage, reorganizing the garage, and decluttering some of the closet in Jonas’ room.  We have more projects that we’d like to do now that we know that we’re staying for awhile and we have income coming in that can allow us to do the projects.  Some of the projects we’d like to do:  declutter the house and find a storage unit to store things, order a bench and shelf for the entry way, ordering a DVD rack, and trimming the front bushes.  We’ll see how that goes.

Nat starts work today, so I hope all goes well.  I’m not sure if they’re just going to throw him in today or have a more laidback first day of work.  I’m hoping that Nat won’t have to stay too long at work most days so that he can help me watch the kiddos while I cook dinner.  If not, we’ll adjust.  :)

Interviews (by Ramona)

Wednesday, July 21st, 2010

I was reading my previous post about trusting God with Nat’s job search.  I look back and realize that God has helped me let go of my desires.  There is a faint ache from not getting what I wanted, but for the most part, I’m at a place where I just want Nat to get a job and be happy.

I was encouraged earlier this week by a friend when he e-mailed me the following in response to my numerous prayer requests about the job search at church:

Let me first say that Nat’s perseverance is to be commended.  A certain level of discouragement is quite normal for both of you because we all go into things like this with expectations and I have always believed that when our expectations are not met, the Lord is really at work.  So, as strange as it may sound, I see this as very exciting as it is an evidence that the Lord has something very specific for both of you and His timing is going to rule the day.

One thing is for sure: your appreciation for the job the Lord eventually provides for Nat will be so much more intense due to your having to wait and go through rejection along the way.  Had Nat gotten tons of offers or found his dream job in the first interview, I’m guessing that what God is doing in you and through you may not have been accomplished the way it is now.  Abraham and Sarah had to wait beyond what any of us would consider reasonable.  Joseph too had to wait years for his dreams to become a reality.  Many times, the Lord brings the most growth in us when we are waiting.  Be encouraged in His promises.

This e-mail was just a reminder for us to trust in the Lord completely and that it is He that will provide the job for us, and not by our own hands.  Yes, God has blessed Nat with success in his education, and yes, God has blessed Nat with intelligence, but ultimately, it is God who will open the doors to the place He would like us to go.  He will let Nat’s resume get to the right hands, peak interest in the managers, and give favor with his interviewers.  He will use the knowledge that He has given Nat at the interviews to help Him succeed.  We will just have to wait.  Hopefully, not as long as Abraham and Sarah for a son, or like Joseph to be reunited with his family.  :P

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On a slightly different tangent, Nat’s traveling has taken a toll on Sean.  When Nat was getting ready this morning, Sean kept saying over and over again, “Daddy no go to work!  Daddy no go to work!”.  Then, when Nat called from O’Hare, Sean said to him, “Daddy all done California?  Daddy all down interview?”  Soon, Sean, very soon!

As a side note, Sean says that Nat is going to “California” for all of his trips.  We think it’s because the first trip that was taken was to California, so all trips are California.  Speaking of all of Nat’s trips, I thought it would be fun to list all of Nat’s trips since March:  San Diego, Albuquerque, Boston (twice), Seattle (three times), Dallas, Hartford, Baltimore, and San Jose.  Eleven trips in four months.

We’ll all be happy when Nat’s done with all of his traveling.

Traveling (by Ramona)

Friday, April 9th, 2010

Nat is currently in Cambridge, Massachusetts for his interview with BBN.  This is his third interview since the end of March and his third time traveling since the middle of March.  Nat is pretty tired of traveling, and I’m pretty tired of him traveling too!

A perk to this interview with BBN is that Nat is able to visit his grandparents in Westborough.  So after a long day of interviews and giving a job talk, Nat can relax and enjoy the rest of his trip.  I know that Nat’s grandparents are excited to see him.  :)

I am looking forward to Sunday, when he comes home.  Taking care of two kids is hard work by yourself!

Sunny New Mexico (by Ramona)

Saturday, March 27th, 2010

Nat will be traveling to Albuquerque, New Mexico tomorrow.  He’s going to interview at Sandia on Monday.  I will say, of all the interviews he has right now, this is the one I hope Nat gets the most!  I like the size of Albuquerque, the housing prices, and the sunnier weather! :)

Nat has to give a job talk as part of his interview.  He is presenting his research in his job talk.  The challenge of giving a job talk is being able to talk about his research in a hierarchical fashion:  broad, some details, and specifics.  You want to be able to explain your research to the lay-person with the broad overview and have them understand some of your details.  You also want to show that you know what you’re talking about and that you have done work through the detailed portion of the talk.  Most people, unless they’re in your area, will get lost in the details.

Nat has been preparing his job talk all week, and he’s very nervous about it.  He does not like presenting in front of people mainly because he’s the center of attention.  He doesn’t like being the center of attention.  When Nat gets nervous, he speaks more quietly and fast, which may come across as timid and not confident.  This nervousness is overshadowing Nat’s strengths:  he knows his area extremely well, is excited about his research, and likes what he does.  I know that Nat is a very good candidate, and I know he would do a great job at whatever job he applies for.  I hope that the people interviewing will be able to see that too!

If you get an opportunity, please pray that Nat would trust in the Lord with regards to this interview.  Please pray for peace for Nat and that he would be able to put his best food forward with his interviewers and that the interviewers would be able to see the great qualities in Nat.  I know that Lord has blessed Nat with intelligence and success in his PhD for a purpose, and I truly believe the Lord will lead Nat to a job that he will be successful at and enjoy.  Please pray also that we would  trust the Lord with the outcome of the interview.  The desire of my heart is that he would get an offer, but I do not know if this is the Lord’s will.  If it’s not, pray that we would continue to trust the Lord in Nat’s job hunt!

Single mom for the next work week (by Ramona)

Saturday, March 13th, 2010

Nat is going to San Diego for a conference on Monday and he’ll be back on Friday.  I haven’t really thought much about next week (I’m in denial), but Monday is just around the corner.  I’m not looking forward to watching both boys by myself for five days and four nights.  Fortunately, I’ve recruited some help for every evening from my friends.  :)   I’m going to provide dinner, and they’re going to help me with the boys for bedtime.  I’ll be bathing one while my friends entertain the other.  They’ll also help me entertain Sean while I put Jonas down for the night.

We’ve been trying to explain to Sean that daddy will be gone for about a week the past few days, but I’m not sure he quite understands how long daddy will be gone.  I’m planning to have Sean talk to Nat before bed each day, and hopefully that will help Sean not to miss daddy too much.

I have a feeling I’ll be exhausted by the end of each day next week.  Hopefully, the days will go by quickly, and the evenings will be uneventful and filled with good sleep! :)

A busy, busy, Nat! (by Ramona)

Wednesday, March 10th, 2010

Sorry I haven’t posted for awhile.  Nat updated our password to be stronger so that we wouldn’t get spammed, and I didn’t really learn the new password.  We finally changed it tonight to something we can agree on and that’s easy for me to remember.

We have a busy couple of months ahead, so I’ll just start telling you what’s happening at the Thompsons.  Nat is traveling to San Diego next week for a conference.  He’s presenting the paper that was accepted, so that’s exciting.  I’ll be home with the kids enlisting the help of some friends to help with the boys at bedtime.  :)

Nat comes home next Friday, and he’ll stay for a week.  Then, the following Sunday (28th), Nat will be flying out to Albuquerque for an interview at Sandia.  Nat is nervous about the interview because he will have to give a presentation.  I hope that Nat does well!  I’m excited at the prospect of moving to New Mexico! :)

After Nat gets back, he’ll be focusing on finishing up his research, writing his thesis, and defending his PhD.  We’re hoping that Nat will be finished before Ethan’s wedding and have a job lined up by then.  Needless to say, it’ll be a hectic few months.

Life as we know it (by Ramona)

Saturday, July 25th, 2009

Sorry we haven’t posted too much lately!  We turned off the server for a couple of weeks while my mom was visiting, and we were too lazy to turn it on.  :)   Life after our travel to Massachusetts and my mom’s visit has been pretty normal.  I run errands with Sean in the morning, we eat lunch, he takes a nap, and we run more errands.  :)

Nat has been busy working on a conference paper which is due on Sean’s birthday.  :P   He’s been working so hard and thinking so hard that his body is starting to take a toll.  He’s been feeling sore from sitting at the computer so much.  Luckily, he had a big breakthrough with his paper last Friday, so it’s been less stressful (or at least a different kind of stress) for him.  Now, he just needs to plug and chug away at his paper.

Nat has also narrowed down his preliminary exam date for September 3rd or 4th.  :)   The preliminary exam is an exam where he submits a 20 page paper that outlines how his research contributes to the field, a background of existing approaches, the research he has completed with regards to the topic area, and what he plans to do to finish up his PhD.  For Nat’s department, most people pass.  I feel like it’s more a negotiation of what needs to be done in order for him to finish.  I’m so proud of him that we’re approaching the finish line.  :)

As for me, I’ve been feeling pretty good.  I’m not very keen on my gestational diabetes diet, but it’s not too horrible to bear.  My doctor was happy enough with my blood sugars at the last visit that he said I could just test every other day.  I will say, the days I don’t test, I’m a little bit more lenient with the carbs that I eat.  :)   As far as I can tell, the baby is doing fine–moving great, size is good, and I’m measuring about where I’m supposed to be.  :)

Next Friday is Sean’s 2nd birthday, so Nat’s parents will be coming into town.  We’re going to have a small birthday party at the pool, so that should be fun! :)   I can’t believe my little boy is already 2!  What a big boy he is!

Best wife ever! (by Nat)

Tuesday, April 1st, 2008

I wanted to write a post describing how thankful I am for the amazing job Ramona has done as a wife and mother the last couple of months. She has made a very spirited effort to embrace her new role as stay-at-home-mom. I have been really impressed with her goal to complete one chore a day around the house. That’s in addition to running errands, visiting friends, preparing food and watching Sean. Just from the times I have stayed home alone with Sean I know that it is so hard to get anything else done besides watching him. Then when he lays down to sleep all you want to do is rest. But somehow Ramona manages to keep the house looking great, keep Sean happy, keep herself sane, and on top of it prepare dinner for us!!

Because of her work I have had more time to devote to my research, which is obviously beneficial, but I am sad to admit that as I have started working more I have been getting more wrapped up in my work. I think recently Ramona has started to feel burned out from it all and in need of encouragement, so I hope that this post can be a little bit of affirmation for the wonderful job she is doing and an indication of my appreciation of it!

I love you sweetie!