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Interviews (by Ramona)

Wednesday, July 21st, 2010

I was reading my previous post about trusting God with Nat’s job search.  I look back and realize that God has helped me let go of my desires.  There is a faint ache from not getting what I wanted, but for the most part, I’m at a place where I just want Nat to get a job and be happy.

I was encouraged earlier this week by a friend when he e-mailed me the following in response to my numerous prayer requests about the job search at church:

Let me first say that Nat’s perseverance is to be commended.  A certain level of discouragement is quite normal for both of you because we all go into things like this with expectations and I have always believed that when our expectations are not met, the Lord is really at work.  So, as strange as it may sound, I see this as very exciting as it is an evidence that the Lord has something very specific for both of you and His timing is going to rule the day.

One thing is for sure: your appreciation for the job the Lord eventually provides for Nat will be so much more intense due to your having to wait and go through rejection along the way.  Had Nat gotten tons of offers or found his dream job in the first interview, I’m guessing that what God is doing in you and through you may not have been accomplished the way it is now.  Abraham and Sarah had to wait beyond what any of us would consider reasonable.  Joseph too had to wait years for his dreams to become a reality.  Many times, the Lord brings the most growth in us when we are waiting.  Be encouraged in His promises.

This e-mail was just a reminder for us to trust in the Lord completely and that it is He that will provide the job for us, and not by our own hands.  Yes, God has blessed Nat with success in his education, and yes, God has blessed Nat with intelligence, but ultimately, it is God who will open the doors to the place He would like us to go.  He will let Nat’s resume get to the right hands, peak interest in the managers, and give favor with his interviewers.  He will use the knowledge that He has given Nat at the interviews to help Him succeed.  We will just have to wait.  Hopefully, not as long as Abraham and Sarah for a son, or like Joseph to be reunited with his family.  :P

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On a slightly different tangent, Nat’s traveling has taken a toll on Sean.  When Nat was getting ready this morning, Sean kept saying over and over again, “Daddy no go to work!  Daddy no go to work!”.  Then, when Nat called from O’Hare, Sean said to him, “Daddy all done California?  Daddy all down interview?”  Soon, Sean, very soon!

As a side note, Sean says that Nat is going to “California” for all of his trips.  We think it’s because the first trip that was taken was to California, so all trips are California.  Speaking of all of Nat’s trips, I thought it would be fun to list all of Nat’s trips since March:  San Diego, Albuquerque, Boston (twice), Seattle (three times), Dallas, Hartford, Baltimore, and San Jose.  Eleven trips in four months.

We’ll all be happy when Nat’s done with all of his traveling.

Recuperating (by Ramona)

Sunday, July 18th, 2010

Some say that you need to take a vacation from your vacation, and that is so true for us, especially after traveling with kids.  We’ve been recuperating from our trip and trying to get back into the swing of things.  I’ve been feeling especially tired and have been having a hard time getting back into cooking and cleaning the house.  I’m almost back to 100%, but I probably won’t be until Nat finishes his traveling at the end of this coming up week.

Speaking of Nat, Nat deposited his thesis last week, so he is officially a doctor now!  He also finished up his conference paper, so that’s another burden lifted off Nat’s shoulder.  He was still pretty busy last week despite his accomplishments since he needed to fix his slides for a job talk that he’s giving tomorrow.  Nat is interviewing at a company in Maryland, and his interview consists of giving a job talk and getting grilled afterwards.  Fun, I know.  Nat comes home late tomorrow night, and they flies out on Wednesday for another interview on Thursday.  Hopefully, Nat will get an offer from one of these two interviews, because all we’ve heard so far is no.  It’s definitely been teaching us to trust in the Lord and His provision going through this job search.  Nat is definitely feeling more confident, and dare I say, excited about his job talk on Monday, and he’s feeling more relaxed about interviewing, and I think we can attribute that to the Lord.

To add to the “excitement” at our house, Jonas developed a fever on Friday, and it has gotten worse as the weekend has gone on.  We took him to the doctor today, and it seems like it’s nothing serious.  We just have to ride it out.  Hopefully, Jonas will feel better this afternoon.

Two Weeks Vacation (by Ramona)

Thursday, July 8th, 2010

Ah, we’re finally home, and I’m at a point well I’m well rested enough to make this post.  :)

We left on Tuesday, June 22, to Dallas for one of our bridesdmaid’s (Mehvash) wedding.  We had a direct flight to Dallas, which was nice.  However, it took quite awhile to get Jonas to sleep.

Let me take this time and say that getting Jonas to sleep on the plane is a challenge.  When Jonas is tired, he likes to be left alone in his crib so that he can go to sleep by himself.  He may a few minutes to fuss, but in general, it’s not very long, and he’ll fall asleep on his tummy.  The plane is not conducive for what Jonas is used to or likes to fall asleep.  He does not like having to be held and restricted in movement (so that he doesn’t roll off my lap), and it’s distracting having everything else that is going on the plane.  Throw in the fact that Jonas has never taken a pacifier and the fact that he does not nurse to sleep, it means that there is lots of crying and fussing before he finally falls asleep.

When we flew down to Dallas, Jonas spent about 20 minutes trying to fall asleep, and when he finally did, we landed.  I thought I could pick him up and keep him asleep, but he woke up as soon as jostle him a little.  So much for a nice nap. :P   When we got to my parents house in Plano, there was a little chaos.  One of the AC units was broken, the crib needed to be put together, a closet needed to be cleaned out for Sean’s bedroom, and the pool was really dirty.  My parents don’t really live in the Plano house anymore, so it’s not surprising that there were some problems.  Nat and I got the boys beds and rooms ready (well, closets in the master bathroom), and put poor tired Jonas down for a nap.  My mom stayed at home to wait for the AC guy to come while the rest of our family went out to lunch and grocery shopping.  Speaking of my mom, she spent most of the afternoon cleaning the house on Monday before we got there.  It was pretty dirty and dusty since it hadn’t been lived in years.

Tuesday was also pretty hectic because Nat flew out in the afternoon to Boston.  We found out his paternal grandmother, Grandma Thompson, had passed away on Sunday.  It wasn’t sudden since her health had been deteriorating for years, but it was sad to hear the news.  I drove him back to the airport in the afternoon.

Tuesday evening, I decided to clean out my room, which hasn’t been touched since I moved to Illinois.  I realized I kept a lot of things and was quite a pack rat!  I had my old tests from Algebra II, Physics, and Chem II!  I had a lot of things that I threw out and set aside to be donated.  Most of the things I kept were sentimental, and I could easily pack all the things in one or two boxes.  My mom definitely encouraged me to keep some things that she thought were sentimental.  :)   It took me a lot longer than I had thought, and my mom was a little overwhelmed when she saw all the things on the floor.  I finally got it all cleaned up so that my mom could sleep in the room.  :)

The rest of our time in Dallas was spent on shopping for things, going out to eat at lunch, and meeting up with people in Dallas who I haven’t seen in years.  We got to see Karl & Susan V, Kenton & Sarah V, Eva & her kids Morgan (Zoe was sleeping), Stephanie & Darcy and their kids Jubilee & Jonas, Shelley & her son Joshua, Nisha & her parents, Wei & Pete, and Dana and Ly.  We also got to spend time with my Aunt and Uncle and their son Alex and his girlfriend Bonnie.  With all the people that we were visiting, we didn’t have very much time to relax.  We did to spend some time watching the World Cup, and I got to work out, but most of the time we were out and about.

We were able to spend some good time with our family.  Nat and I took Sean to watch Toy Story 3 one morning, and we also got to watch Knight and Day with my mom one evening.  We were also able to go swimming one afternoon after we got the pool fixed and cleaned.  We also had a family photo shoot with the photographers that did our wedding.  We had a to reschedule the photoshoot a few times because of the rain, and it ended up raining the day that we did our photoshoot.  We tried to beat the rain but only got a couple of shots before we moved into a mall.  I hope that we got some good shots!  I’ll post them as soon as Brooks and Leighanne get them up!

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On Thursday, July 1, we headed out to Seattle.  We had another direct flight, which was nice.  Jonas fussed and cried before his nap, but fortunately, it didn’t take too long for him to fall asleep.  He woke up earlier than he’d like because Sean was throwing a tantrum right when Jonas was stirring between sleep cycles.  all in all, the boys did well on the plane.

It took us some time to get down to the rental car kiosk since we needed to change the boys diapers, and we thought that someone took one of our car seats because we had similar bags.  We finally found that our bag was on the floor on the side.  We got our car packed and headed out to the bed and breakfast where we were staying, Chelsea Station Inn.  When we arrived, Nat’s Aunt Nancy, Uncle Jim, Grandpa Thompson, and Cousin Brian pulled up as well.  We were also greeted by Nat’s dad who was eagerly waiting outside.  Nat’s mom, and Nat’s maternal grandparents were waiting inside.  It was a great family reunion, and we had just enough time to visit before the rehearsal.  Everyone went to rehearsal except for Grandpa Thompson and I (well, Jonas too since he was napping), and so I had a chance to unpack our things. When everyone got back, we put the boys to bed, and Nat kindly let me go out to dinner with the family and bridal party.  He had been to the pizzeria before, so he told me that I could go.  :)   Nat spent his time with his maternal grandparents downstairs.  We had all four of the suites (two for the grandparents, one for us, and one for Nat’s parents), so we had the whole house to ourselves.  :)   It was really nice that we could keep our doors unlocked and to be able to hangout with family while our boys were sleeping.

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Let me take out some time and say that the Chelsea Station Inn is FABULOUS!  Each suite is exactly the same, and they are spacious – a living room, dining room, kitchen (including plates, utensils, glasses, coffee maker, small fridge, drying rack, dish racks, sponge, etc), 1.5 bathrooms, and a bedroom.

Each morning, they prepare breakfast, and it’s pretty fancy and delicious.  We had breakfast 3 mornings, and I’ll list what we had each morning.  Morning 1:  granola with yogurt and berries followed by a plate of french toast with sausage and mini quiches.  Morning 2:  fresh fruit plate (mango, kiwi, orange, Ranier cherries) followed by a plate of bacon, biscuits, and scrambled eggs with tomatoes, onions and avocadoes.  Morning 3 (the “light” self-serve breakfast because we and a brunch with the family):  croissants and berries with whipped cream.

Downstairs, there is a fridge filled with drinks and a shelf with snacks that is accessible to all guests 24-hours.  They keep the fridge stocked with gourmet sodas (i.e. root beer, pear soda, etc.), milk, and other beverages.  In the freezer, they have Klondike bars and some mini Ben & Jerry’s cup.  On the shelf, you can pick up some S. Pellegrino sparkling water and cookies and crackers (Pepperidge Farm Milanos, Fig Newtons, etc.).  They definitely don’t skimp on food.

In addition to all of this, they provide maps of the area and a small toiletries basket in the back hallway if you forgot anything on your trip. The staff are super friendly and helpful.  They helped us prepare some delicious egg casseroles and pick up some coffee for our large open-house brunch on Sunday morning at the bed and breakfast.

They are located right across the Woodland Zoo, so please do consider this place to stay if you are in Seattle, even with young kids!  We made our space work by borrowing a Pack N’ Play and pulling out the mattress in the sofa-bed to use as Sean’s bed.  :)

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Back to our Seattle visit.  Friday morning all of the family from Nat’s mother’s side came and visited.  It was chaos, but so much fun to see everyone.  Sean was particularly excited to play with second-cousin Roo.  :)   Nat’s cousin Kim (and husband Rory), have two boys within months of our boys, so they make perfect playmates! The ladies headed out to a surprise bridal shower for Anne at 11:30AM, and we returned around 2PM.  The guys (Nat, his dad, and Jonas) picked up their tuxes while Sean napped.  After the ladies returned home, we relaxed as much as we could before the rehearsal dinner, especially since the boys were still on Central time instead of Pacific time.  :P   We had a sitter come to watch the boys while we went out to rehearsal dinner.  As it turns out, the sitter actually lived in Champaign-Urbana while she and her husband were doing graduate school, and she knew one of our friends.  Small world! :)   We went to a seafood place by the water for the rehearsal dinner, and it was nice to see everyone there.

Saturday was a pretty slow morning.  We had breakfast and relaxed.  We had a little downtime after breakfast, so we visited Anne and Ethan’s house for a little bit and dropped off Nat to hangout with Ethan and the rest of the groomsmen for the rest of the day.  After I put both the boys down, Nat’s dad and I went on a date for sushi at Kisaku, which was FABULOUS! :)   We came home to two boys who had woken up and a car full of groceries in Nat’s parents rental car.  Nat’s mom had gone out to buy TONS of food for brunch the next day.  At 4PM, we took some family pictures with Ethan, and came home to relax a little.  Since the Inn was in walking distance of the Rose Garden at Woodland Zoo, a lot of people came to hangout and relax.  Everyone left for the ceremony, and I stayed to put the boys down for bed.  Fortunately, I made it to the ceremony before it started. It was a gorgeous afternoon – sunny and warm.  I was worried that it was going to be raining, like all the other afternoons, but it was perfect for Ethan and Anne’s wedding.  We headed to the reception after and had a great time at the wedding.

Sunday morning, Nat’s parents had planned a brunch for all the out-of-town guests.  We spent the morning tidying up our room and putting things back because both downstairs rooms were being used as a place to get food and mingle.  We had a ton of food there, and it was good to see lots of friends and family there.  Ethan and Anne showed up later in the brunch, and it was fun to see them there.  Later in the afternoon, we took Sean to the zoo, and came back for dinner.  Nat and I were planning on a date that evening, but it turned out to be a big gathering of family and friends.  :)   After dinner, we visited Beth and Carl in their new home.

We left early on Monday morning, and we got home at 4PM with no delays and canceled flights!  The boys did fabulously on the flight, and we are so glad to be home.  Sean, especially, was glad to be home with all his toys.  He was asking to come home on the second day we were in Seattle.  :P   Whew, now we need some time to just veg out at home! :)

Seattle (by Ramona)

Thursday, May 20th, 2010

Sorry I haven’t posted in awhile.  Life has been super busy at our house.  Nat has been writing his dissertation and submitting some more job applications.  He’s been spending most of his time on his dissertation, and he just needs to make the final push until June 4th, when he defends!

Nat flew out to Seattle this week to interview with Microsoft.  He left on Tuesday morning and is coming back tomorrow.  One nice thing about scheduling this interview was that he was able to watch Ethan defend today.  Ethan is now Dr. Thompson!  Yay! :)

I definitely do not enjoy life without Nat.  The days seem longer and harder even though I spend most of the day with the boys by myself anyways.  It’s just the thought that I have to do it alone the whole day that makes it hard.  Before the day begins, I already feel my patience running low.  Fortunately, it’s gotten easier watching the boys, and I’ve had a lot of help in the evenings.  It’s been such a blessing to have them help throughout this time period of Nat interviewing.  I think all my friends are amazing for providing dinner, helping out with the boys at bedtime, playing with them, watching them so that I can get out, or just being there with me in the evening so I have company.  I find it hard to believe that they actually like watching the boys and spending time with them; I’m spent by the afternoon! :)   My friends give so much of their time and love, and I feel so extremely blessed! :)

I’ll update you as soon as I find out where we’re going to be next! :)

Traveling (by Ramona)

Friday, April 9th, 2010

Nat is currently in Cambridge, Massachusetts for his interview with BBN.  This is his third interview since the end of March and his third time traveling since the middle of March.  Nat is pretty tired of traveling, and I’m pretty tired of him traveling too!

A perk to this interview with BBN is that Nat is able to visit his grandparents in Westborough.  So after a long day of interviews and giving a job talk, Nat can relax and enjoy the rest of his trip.  I know that Nat’s grandparents are excited to see him.  :)

I am looking forward to Sunday, when he comes home.  Taking care of two kids is hard work by yourself!

Sunny New Mexico (by Ramona)

Saturday, March 27th, 2010

Nat will be traveling to Albuquerque, New Mexico tomorrow.  He’s going to interview at Sandia on Monday.  I will say, of all the interviews he has right now, this is the one I hope Nat gets the most!  I like the size of Albuquerque, the housing prices, and the sunnier weather! :)

Nat has to give a job talk as part of his interview.  He is presenting his research in his job talk.  The challenge of giving a job talk is being able to talk about his research in a hierarchical fashion:  broad, some details, and specifics.  You want to be able to explain your research to the lay-person with the broad overview and have them understand some of your details.  You also want to show that you know what you’re talking about and that you have done work through the detailed portion of the talk.  Most people, unless they’re in your area, will get lost in the details.

Nat has been preparing his job talk all week, and he’s very nervous about it.  He does not like presenting in front of people mainly because he’s the center of attention.  He doesn’t like being the center of attention.  When Nat gets nervous, he speaks more quietly and fast, which may come across as timid and not confident.  This nervousness is overshadowing Nat’s strengths:  he knows his area extremely well, is excited about his research, and likes what he does.  I know that Nat is a very good candidate, and I know he would do a great job at whatever job he applies for.  I hope that the people interviewing will be able to see that too!

If you get an opportunity, please pray that Nat would trust in the Lord with regards to this interview.  Please pray for peace for Nat and that he would be able to put his best food forward with his interviewers and that the interviewers would be able to see the great qualities in Nat.  I know that Lord has blessed Nat with intelligence and success in his PhD for a purpose, and I truly believe the Lord will lead Nat to a job that he will be successful at and enjoy.  Please pray also that we would  trust the Lord with the outcome of the interview.  The desire of my heart is that he would get an offer, but I do not know if this is the Lord’s will.  If it’s not, pray that we would continue to trust the Lord in Nat’s job hunt!

Single mom for the next work week (by Ramona)

Saturday, March 13th, 2010

Nat is going to San Diego for a conference on Monday and he’ll be back on Friday.  I haven’t really thought much about next week (I’m in denial), but Monday is just around the corner.  I’m not looking forward to watching both boys by myself for five days and four nights.  Fortunately, I’ve recruited some help for every evening from my friends.  :)   I’m going to provide dinner, and they’re going to help me with the boys for bedtime.  I’ll be bathing one while my friends entertain the other.  They’ll also help me entertain Sean while I put Jonas down for the night.

We’ve been trying to explain to Sean that daddy will be gone for about a week the past few days, but I’m not sure he quite understands how long daddy will be gone.  I’m planning to have Sean talk to Nat before bed each day, and hopefully that will help Sean not to miss daddy too much.

I have a feeling I’ll be exhausted by the end of each day next week.  Hopefully, the days will go by quickly, and the evenings will be uneventful and filled with good sleep! :)

Westborough Update (by Ramona)

Thursday, June 18th, 2009

Here is the first part of our trip that I posted about last Friday, June 12, (I couldn’t put it up on the page because our website was down):

Ever since Sean was born, we’ve been out to Westborough, MA every year to see both sets of great grandparents.  I must say, it’s a blessing that even at such a young age, Sean can spend time with his great grandparents.  We’re fortunate enough that they both still live in the same town and that Nat’s family is able to come out every time we’re out.  I know that everyone enjoys seeing Sean and the family and how much he’s grown.

Yesterday, we started our day bright and early at 5:45AM.  Sean definitely didn’t want to be up, but he was very happy to see the “ter-uhs” (trucks) and planes at the airport.  He did really well on the flight to Chicago and Boston.  I must say that we were very happy to finally land at Logan because Sean was getting antsy and restless from being confined to a seat for 2 hours.  Who can blame him, right?  He’s a toddler that needs to move!

Nat’s parents had just parked (their flight arrived an hour before), and we got our luggage and were quickly on our way to Westborough.  We arrived to see Great Grandpa T for a little bit while we dropped off some things.  Then, we headed over to Great Grandparents H’s.  Everyone was excited to see Sean.  We got the crib setup and had a little bit of lunch.  We put down Sean for a nap (and boy was he ready), and he went down without a peep!  This was very unusual and nice for us because usually he cries in a new place.  After he woke up, we went grocery shopping and headed back to Great Grandpa T’s for dinner.  We had a good time hanging out and taking our turns watching Sean.  Nat and I had to rush through dinner a little bit because Sean was having a meltdown.  We couldn’t blame him though, he had a long day and was ready for bed.  We came back to the H’s to give him a quick bath, and then he went down for bed without a peep.

Today, we’ve had a relaxing day at the H’s.  I must say, each trip we usually have some activities planned for a few days, but I really enjoy the relaxing times where we don’t have anything to do or anywhere to be.  I’m reminded of how much Sean has grown each time I come and visit and what he was doing last time when we were here.  I’m glad that I’m able to come out and have family time.  It’s such a blessing.

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On Saturday, Dave, Nat’s college friend, came to visit us in Westborough.  We had a good time having lunch at Grandpa T’s and afterwards, we went to Grandparents H’s for Sean’s nap and some game time.  Ethan and Anne flew in that afternoon, so we had dinner with them at the T’s.

On Sunday, the H side of the family (cousins, uncles, and aunts) all gathered together at the H’s house for lunch.  It was a dreary day, but Grandma had an ingenious idea to have us all sit in their 2-car garage.  Uncle Ben went to fetch some tables and chairs, and we were set.  Let me say, it was a loud gathering of everyone wanting to catch up with everyone.  :)   Sean had a good time with his second cousin Roo by playing “stroller wars” out in the driveway.  Needless to say, with all the excitement, Sean did not take a nap.  :P   We headed to the historical society in the afternoon to see the room that the H’s had dedicated to them.  It was a good time listening to part of the history of the town and seeing how the H’s were apart of that.  Aunt Nancy flew in Sunday afternoon, so we headed back to the T’s for dinner with her.  Nat and I were pooped on Sunday!

Monday, we headed to the Cape in the morning to get some lobster for dinner and have lunch by the canal.  Sean really enjoyed the canal and seeing the sea gulls, water, and boats.  I told mom how the longest car rides the Sean has taken all have been in the East Coast!  I was shocked when we drove home that Sean actually fell asleep in the car.  He took about a 40 minute snooze and decided that was enough of a nap.  :)   We had a lovely lobster dinner with the T family, and then we headed back to the H’s to pack.

All in all, it was a jam-packed weekend of family, but it was well worth it!